The Art of Flirting

The Art of Flirting is something that you need to learn if you want to attract the attention of someone who looks interesting.

Flirting can be much more than just a bit of fun, done effectively it can be the very first step to the beginning of a beautiful relationship. Flirting with someone can create a positive effect and make them feel good about themselves.

So how do you develop the art of flirting?

Flirting is a subtle communication tool that we often use instinctively to draw the attention to ourselves of someone who we find attractive in some way. It is a natural gift that we are given at birth, but we don’t always use it and follow our instincts, so can end up by giving out wrong signals which are misinterpreted or not appreciated.

Here are some tips to help you to learn the art of flirting

Look into his eyes. The eyes are the first thing you notice about a person, so let your eyes do the talking. Let your eyes rest for a moment on the persons eyes you are interested in with a facial expression that conveys an emotional message, as they notice your look, then look away. This will make him notice you.

Subtle and subconscious signals can speak volumes. Running a finger gently through your hair, playing with your keys, moving your hands up and down a glass, all send a sensual message and indicate that you are interested in a person.

Start a conversation. Be the first one to speak and try and get him to engage in a conversation. Try not to ask personal questions at first, but try and find out what sort of thing he is interested in and tell him about your interests.

Give him a wink. Make sure that you convey the right message by doing it properly.

Touch. Being touched by someone you find attractive is very exciting. Touch his arm casually during conversation, lead him to the dance floor by holding his hand, playfully touch his neck or gently touch  his face. These are all signals that show you find someone attractive.

Invite him to dance. Dance close to his body and make sensuous moves, make eye contact and smile. This can be very seductive and flirtatious.

Compliment him Men love to receive a compliment, so say something nice to him– comment on what he is wearing,his hair, his smell. Be sincere though, if you go over the top it could sound false.

Buy him a drink or send him a little note. This will let him know that you are interested in him and will surely impress him.

Show off your best features. Everyone is special in some way or other. So flaunt your best features – perhaps you have nice shiny hair, seductive lips or come-to-bed eyes. Use your best features to your advantage – you will be irresistible.

Be Bold. If you want to say something come right out with it. If you want to touch him, do it. If you’ve got the nerve go right up to him and give him a passionate kiss. It is most likely that he will be impressed by your bold attitude and find it real turn-on.

Have a go at some of these flirting techniques next time you are out. It can take a bit of practise to learn the art of flirting and get it right, but have some fun and get yourself noticed.

If you need help to find your real man check out “The Lost Art of Offline Dating. How to Find Love With a Real Man in the Real World.”